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Hello, my boyfriend of four years has lied to me repeatedly. He told me he had no kid, than found out he did. Also, he lied bout how many times he was married. Come to find out, he was married 3, times, and he was still married when we first got together. for two years, I had slept with, and lived with a married man. He claims he doesnt remember marrying her, help!
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Dear Amber,
He is a liar and you deserve better – someone who will be truthful with you and treat you with respect. His behavior is despicable. You don’t need him. Leave him and don’t look back.
Best,
SoR
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Pleaseeeeee!!!! I am begging you help me please please xxxxx thank you beautiful ladies. GOD BLESS I really need help I came across the site and read it it was the narsisitic type but worse. He was worse and Even spat In my face
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No need to beg. Our best advice is to end the relationship as no one deserves to be treated badly. We recommend that you start by cutting communication. Some advice on how to do this effectively is here: https://sistersofresistance.wordpress.com/2011/06/06/how-to-leave-a-bad-relationship-part-1-cutting-communication/
Please read the entire series for our best advice on ending a bad relationship.
Below are some links that you might want to read to help to understand how narcissists work/what happened to you, and which encourage you on your journey to healing and recovery.
There are a lot of these kinds of links out there, so I recommend starting with those that cover what narcissism is (the personality disorder itself) and going towards the resources that speak most to you and your experience.
http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/9741.php
http://www.lisaescott.com/2011/06/27/first-three-steps-recovery-narcissistic-personality-disorder-abuse
http://npsurvivors.blogspot.co.uk/p/about_24.html
Wishing you all the best on your road to recovery.
SoR
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I have he ended relationship with me but he was beautiful to a beautiful french very extremely romantic no man was like him I observed others and ours was good most of time but then he would also get so aggressive and did spit in my face and did throw things at me kicked me in the ribs but he accused me of cheating just because I was messaging a male friend as joking around he’s gone I want him back. I think his past maybe was upsetting him and he couldn’t trust me because he was worried but he acted so weird too not showing me things and he became distant I wonder? Because he was a backpacker I met him and he was french I think they are very controlling well Italian but born in France but his attitude would always threaten to leave me and end us and it was a 7 month relationship it was the most beautiful thing apart from the crazy behavior but maybe his past made him feel this way he was a sweet beautiful guy most times but then this person would come out who I hardly knew and I was like??? I then started getting used to it and when he did I let it happen he wasn’t extreme like bash me and hurt me so bad but spitting in the face still kicking in the ribs was like and he would always blame me always Blame me I wasn’t aloud to have friends and I just don’t know it was confusing
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I’ve read about the behavior but people like sometimes I don’t understand why I mean we are all different but its truly sad how people can think they can control someone else and make someone fall SO deeply and extremely in love? Like the love I have for him was beyond anything anyone could imagine and I still feel for him and love him and want to fight for him he was everything when I thought I lost it all he appeared he was sweet but I wish he would come back and not accuse me of cheating I didn’t ?????? Like out of the blue it doesn’t make sense at all
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Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 1 and half years now. Well at the moment in our relationship we have been arguing a lot, I have not idea why. Recently, my boyfriend has been making disgusting remarks about a family member of mine my sister. It was about a recent photo of him after his gym excercise he jokingly stated that she would enjoy it too if she saw his half naked body. I got very defensive and angry because my ex would be like that and he cheated on me. My boyfriend is refusing to talking to me until 3 days have passed. He always makes me out to be the bad guy and never apologises when he’s in the wrong. I don’t know what to do, I care about him deeply. I am overreacting maybe?
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Dear Ash,
The behaviours your boyfriend has displayed (raunchy talk about your sister and refusing to talk/ignoring you for days) are not respectful or loving, and in fact demonstrate his lack of care and concern for you, your well being and your feelings. You are not overreacting – he is not being a good partner to you.
We understand you care about him but if he “always makes you out to be the bad guy” and treats you with such disrespect, we really recommend that you stop putting up with his behaviour. You deserve better. Read our links on “How to end a bad relationship” above for some ideas on how to start untangling him from your life.
Good luck and and lots of love,
SoR
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He just got into an accident where he fell off a ladder that was 9 feet in the air, He called me from the hospital and I was quite shocked because I haven’t talked to him in over a week. I told him I would be by to see him on Friday he said fine. I called before going to see if he needed anything. He did not. He told me earlier he did not want me to spend the night and his friend would be there. I found him there with his friend and they were drinking beer and talking amongst themselves, I stayed for an hour and half, then I left and felt fine about him. I told him I loved him hugged him and that was that. He asked me to come over the next day. Ok I agreed, when I got home we exchanged several text messages and then in the end he told me he was the problem because I was so perfect. Saturday morning he texted me and told me not to bother coming over, so I respected his wishes and did not (now I see that was a test and I failed that test), Sunday I checked in on him and now he says I haven’t been there for him and no bother trying now. All because I didn’t offer to come by and see him on Sunday. He said I wasn’t there when he needed me. Now what do I do, I went over there last night and he told me it was too late.
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He sounds like he is an emotional manipulator who relies on playing mind games for control. No one who is up front and trustworthy would put you through such “tests”. Your time and energy would be better spent on yourself and people who deserve them. Good luck!
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