Because patriarchy makes women feel unworthy or unlovable especially if we are single, many women who are in bad relationships end up staying with partners who don’t deserve them. We may blame ourselves for the ways in which our relationships are failing. We can come to rely on the relationship for our self-esteem or even our identity. We can fall in love with the romantic idea of being in love, even if it doesn’t correspond to reality. All of this makes it even harder for us to leave. In this guide, we explore the steps it will take to end a bad relationship and move on.
If you answer yes to any of the following questions, this article is for you.
- Do your interactions often leave you feeling angry, hurt, or upset? Unfulfilled, disrespected, or unloved?
- Do you regularly have arguments, the underlying issues of which are left unresolved?
- Does your partner display the same behavior patterns over and over without making any lasting effort to change?